Wedding Attire Etiquette: Colors, Codes, and Customs

Weddings are a celebration of love—and style. But with so many unspoken rules, figuring out what to wear can feel tricky. At Rachel Allan Bridal, we’re here to guide you through the etiquette of wedding attire, whether you’re a guest, mother of the bride, or part of the bridal party. Let’s decode the dos and don’ts.

Should a woman wear black to a wedding?

Yes, black is now acceptable at weddings—if styled right. Once seen as too somber, it’s evolved into a chic, sophisticated choice. Pair a black dress with vibrant accessories to keep it festive. Rachel Allan’s elegant black options for mothers or guests strike the perfect balance.

Is it inappropriate to wear red to a wedding?

Not necessarily! The old myth that “red means you slept with the groom” is outdated. Still, bright red can steal the spotlight, so opt for muted shades like burgundy. Rachel Allan’s rich, tasteful hues ensure you stand out without overshadowing the bride.

What colors are not appropriate to wear to a wedding?

Steer clear of white (unless requested by the couple), neons that scream for attention, or overly funeral-like tones (think head-to-toe gray). The goal? Complement, not compete. Rachel Allan’s curated palettes offer safe, stunning choices for any role. Check wedding guest color tips for more guidance.

What is the cocktail dress code?

Cocktail attire is semi-formal: think knee-length dresses or dressy separates for women, and suits for men. It’s polished yet relaxed, ideal for evening receptions. Rachel Allan’s versatile cocktail dresses—with their intricate details—fit this vibe perfectly.

What is the black-tie dress code?

Black-tie calls for floor-length gowns or tuxedos—pure elegance. It’s the most formal wedding dress code, often for evening events. Rachel Allan’s luxurious gowns with beading and flowing trains make you black-tie ready without missing a beat.

Can you wear navy blue to a wedding?

Absolutely! Navy blue is a versatile, universally flattering choice that works for guests, mothers, or even bridesmaids. It’s elegant without being overpowering. Rachel Allan’s navy designs add a timeless touch to any wedding party.

What does the mother of the bride wear?

The mother of the bride should shine in a way that complements the bridal party without clashing. Opt for a gown that reflects the wedding’s formality—perhaps a Rachel Allan A-line with subtle sparkle. Coordinate with the mother of the groom for harmony. Explore our bridal collection for inspiration.